- ISBN13: 9780060538255
- Condition: NEW
- Notes: Brand New from Publisher. No Remainder Mark.
Product Description
As women everywhere will attest, when it comes to understanding female sexuality, most guys know more about what’s under the hood of a car than under the hood of a clitoris. And while it seems that men have struggled valiantly since the dawn of time to find ways to reliably elicit the female orgasm, rare is the guy who has the modesty to ask: “What do I do?” Ironically, the answer has always been right there on the tip of his tongue. Welcome to the world of SHE COMES FIRST, where the mystery of female satisfaction is solved and the tongue is proven mightier than the sword. According to Ian Kerner, clinical sexologist and evangelist of the female orgasm, oral sex has long been deemed an optional aspect of fo… More >>
She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman

Comments
I already know how to please a woman in the bed room. This book is saying by committing to oral sex you’re committing to female sexual response. Forces you to slow down, when women these days always be saying (I need a man that can keep up with me). Once they get that men be too much for them to handle.
This book is also saying let your tongue become the mentor to the penis. I’m like dull a boy knows that.
Rating: 1 / 5
this book made me yawn. why does this man think he knows and can even write a book about how to satisfy women. guys, save your money and spend the time with your girlfriends/wives
Rating: 1 / 5
I feel a bit funny reviewing a book I haven’t bothered to read, but I like this book just fine as decor. This little baby enjoys a prominent place on my living room coffee table. Peeking out from beneath an equally unread New York Times, this book sends a clear message: I’m a sensitive and caring guy who believes women should come first. And by the time anyone finds out the truth…
Beats the heck out of my old black turtleneck and poetry-book schtick.
Rating: 5 / 5
After reading the excerpts and the reviews here, one wonders if any of the guys are really thinking. One believed “female sexuality” was now demystified, as if it were as complex as quantum field theory. Another man writes about his girl accusing him of cheating on her after performing well in bed. These aren’t really the kinds of things to be boasting about gentlemen. Women really are not that hard to please. I would suggest that if you have a girl leaving you with that impression, then you should date more women and get a better feel for both yourself and other women out there. If your girl, after being given the self-described best sex of your life, starts to cry and thinks you’re cheating, start formulating an exit strategy now bubba, for you’re heading deep into insecurity/paranoia land and you’ll be lost before you know it. Maybe some guys need a book. But I have found no two women ever to be the same, and no woman likes a formulaic approach. Each comes in their own flavors and varieties, and no book can capture human nature–sexuality included–for either gender. Peace.
Rating: 1 / 5
If it seems like many of the reviews here sound like marketing copy or written by the author himself, they probably are. I was concerned when I noticed that these reviews simply repeated the book’s jacket and text, and like the book itself, they are full of hype and hot air. Nothing new to learn here, no adventurous tips or tricks. Just a lot of empty rhetoric, missed information and oversimplification of a woman’s sexuality. The “dumbing-down” for a male auduence makes it particularly tough to swallow.
Rating: 1 / 5